Showing posts with label Hedonism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hedonism. Show all posts

Friday, October 02, 2009

Is Nudism Hedonistic?

Naturally Nude asks the question:
Is nudism just a hedonistic mind f**k? I often ask myself this question. Am I really in nude recreation for all the high philosophical reasons that nudists are always spouting about? When you ask any nudist "why" they're a nudist, the first thing they usually say is "for the freedom." Freedom? Freedom for what, from what? Anytime I hear the word "freedom" I think of someone living under political oppression yearning to be free. Are your clothes "really" oppressing you??
It's a fair question, and a subject that needs to be addressed on a regular basis. First, let's look at the definition of "hedonism":
he·don·ism
n.
1. Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses.
2. Philosophy The ethical doctrine holding that only what is pleasant or has pleasant consequences is intrinsically good.
3. Psychology The doctrine holding that behavior is motivated by the desire for pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
While not purely hedonistic, nudism is, in part, about the pursuit of pleasure. To be nude in nature, on a hiking trail or in the ocean, is a feast for the senses. No question about it. And nudists believe that such pleasure is "intrinsically good".

As for clothing "oppressing" people, it all depends upon a person's particular point of view. For me, I've always been uncomfortable in clothes. Throughout high school our dress code was jacket and tie in classrooms with no air conditioning. After swimming in the nude at the YMCA as a young boy, I hated wearing bathing suits, and the trunks often came off when swimming with friends in local ponds. For years my "uniform" was a t-shirt and comfortable jeans during the day, which is all I could stand wearing, and as far back as I can remember I slept only in briefs, and they usually came off during the night. I never shop for my own clothes - my wife does all the shopping for me, not because I'm lazy, it's just that I despise the process of trying on clothes in those little cubicles.

So for me, clothing is oppressive, and being nude is liberating. Only when completely naked do I feel like my true self. When clothed, I am inhibited.

I would say that for most people, the opposite is true. Clothing plays a major role in people expressing identity, from early childhood to old age, in expressing sexuality, professionalism, fraternalism, militarism, and more. It's nearly impossible to conceive of our society functioning without clothes because of the importance people place on textiles, from the beach to the board room.

Naturally Nude goes on to question nudist motivations, if the removal of clothes in social situations is merely a precept to swinging or other sexual activity, or are those who engage in nudism merely voyeurs or exhibitionists. Again, more fair questions.

I have no doubt that some people get into nudism in order to achieve a sexual thrill. If so, they will be quickly disappointed when they discover the mundane, matter-of-fact, laid-back and non-sexual atmosphere of a nudist venue. These folks need to go to Caliente or Hedonism, or a number of other adult lifestyle clubs in order to satiate their desires.

An exhibitionist or voyeur will be quickly spotted and removed from a nudist resort.

Any honest nudist will tell you that people do indeed look, and are looked at. That is normal. People check each other out when they're all wearing clothes, too. Ultimately, once the initial glances are finished, there's more eye-to-eye contact between nudists than in just about any other social situation, with everyone going out of their way not to stare.

A mere fifty years ago it was more socially acceptable for men to be nude with each other, at the YMCA, at the swimming hole, in the locker room, etc. The women's movement in the late 60s and early 70s put an end to nude swimming at the Y, and a rise in homophobia and Christianist influence outlawed skinny-dipping, and nude gang showers in the schools are rare, if non-existent.

So, my answer to Naturally Nude is no, nudism is not a hedonistic mind fuck, but society and culture are. We are taught from an early age to be modest, to be ashamed of our bodies, to sexualize body parts such as women's breasts to the point of making their exposure criminal, and we prosecute children for taking photos of their own bodies. It's the media marketing sexuality, coupled with the irrational response of the "moral" right and the therapeutic teachings of the left, which are causing this unhealthy and schizophrenic American obsession with sexuality. We are a country in crisis when it comes to sexually transmitted diseases and teen pregnancy, yet we are too embarrassed to even talk to our children about sex, deferring that responsibility to the government and schools, who push abstinence only education. It's all quite insane.

Nudism and naturism are a means in which to counterract all this nonsense that society heaps upon us. So while the shedding of clothes can be somewhat hedonistic, it's also authentic to its naturist philosophies. As the Naturist Society states: "body acceptance is the idea, nude recreation is the way". Perhaps not the only way, but getting rid of the clothes helps the mind to better formulate the true nature of humanity, stripped of textile identity and media manipulated imagery.

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Laura Leyrer Recommends Hedonism

In a disappointing move, Detroit Nudist Adventures Examiner Laura Leyrer has recommended the adult lifestyle resorts Hedonism II and III as viable travel options. These are not nudist venues, they are clothing-optional couples clubs which attract swingers. I have nothing against these adult resorts, just don't call then "nudist."

AANR has just recently lost two Florida resorts, Caliente and Paradise Lakes, because those venues crossed the line into overt sexual activities, exploiting the human body instead of celebrating it.

AANR President John Kinman writes:
This past summer, AANR sponsored The AANR World Record Skinny-Dip. Club owners and beach organizers reported that many people participated who had never before been nude in mixed company. The press reports were the greatest we have ever seen for an event. Clubs signed up new members. The event portrayed wholesome family nude recreation. No one confused it with a strip show or a swinger convention. The event told me that, with focused marketing, our resorts and AANR can grow in membership without a sexual tone.
AANR has drawn a line in the sand. Good for them, and good for nudism. We cannot allow the adult lifestyle folks to hijack family-friendly nudist resorts and turn them into outdoor strip clubs.

Writers like Laura Leyrer need to be more responsible when throwing around the word "nudist" when referring to swinger resorts. The public is confused enough already without being subjected to even more misinformation from supposed "experts."

Sunday, January 06, 2008

The Sunday Newds 1/6/08

Catching up after my sick leave...
  • China is cracking down on video and audio products which the government deems to be in "bad taste". [Bismarck Tribune]
  • A Florida fire chief could lose his job because he distributed photos of a car crash victim with her breasts exposed. The woman did not survive. [Florida Today]
  • At Hedonism III, shy guests can choose the prude pool instead of the nude pool. [chron.com]
  • Daryl Hannah believes that there are really very few films in which nudity is actually integral to a character's development. [contactmusic.com]
  • Victoria Sinclair, the lead anchor for "Naked News", does not believe that stripping down for her job objectifies women.
    "I think these people tend to associate nudity with immorality. I think it's a knee-jerk hangover from our grandparents' values," a fully-clothed Sinclair said in New York this week. "There's nothing sexual about it." [thestar.co.za]
    Vanessa Hudgens has finally gone on the record about her nude photo scandal. [MSNBC.com]
  • Kelly Brook is the latest in a long line of celebrities to be photographed topfree on a beach. [The Sun]
  • Nude bungee jumpers will take the plunge to benefit the B. C. Schizophrenia Society. [canada.com]
  • 30 mothers staged a nurse-in at the Buddy Holly Center in Lubbock, Texas, to protest the removal of artwork depicting a breastfeeding mother and a nude pregnant woman. [theeagle.com]
  • Dear Abby advises a woman who is uncomfortable with the fact that her neighbors have a nudist teenager to "hang curtains". [azstarnet.com]
  • Here's a quiz to guess the celebrities who were quoted about the subject of breastfeeding in 2007. [Celebrity Baby Blog]
  • The world's largest nude polar bear swim took place recently in Vancouver. [news1130]
  • If you are ever in Cape Town, be sure to check out the Sandy Bay nude beach in Cape Peninsula National Park. [The Times]
  • A 26 year-old Escondido resident called the police when he saw a nude painting on display outside a local art gallery.
    "I want to decide as a parent what my kids see," said Stark, adding that he has two young children. "I don't want that decision made for me." [nctimes.com]
  • A nude photography book has been published for the first time in Vietnam. [vietnam.net]
  • Patrons at a $500 per plate fundraiser for the March of Dimes were treated to a piece of performance art featuring a woman wearing only a thong being painted gold by an artist. [New York Post]
  • A New Zealand naturist has been invited to the Dutch travel expo "Vakantiebeurs 2008" to promote her Wairau Valley park.
    "Dutch people feel comfortable with nudity. They don't have the hang-ups we do." [dompost.co.nz]
  • The Socialist People's Party is pushing for women's topfree equality at public pools in Denmark.
    Ninna Thomsen, of the Socialist People's Party, said that Denmark was a liberal country and topless bathing should be allowable in public swimming pools. She also pointed out that sunbathing topless on beaches had been legal for years. [The Copenhagen Post]
  • Three women were arrested in Alabama for being nude at a nightclub that features bikini dancing. "They were naked, but they had shoes on I believe," said police Capt. Larry Draughon. [montgomeryadvertiser.com]

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